During the pandemic, the App became something truly extraordinary — a lifeline when we were all isolated. Men from around the world came together to meditate, learn, connect, and find belonging. Those moments were real, beautiful, and something we’ll always treasure.

As life opened back up, the energy changed. Despite years of work, creativity, and commitment, the App never found the engagement or momentum needed to sustain it. It has taken an enormous amount of time, love, and care to keep going — all of it voluntary — and it’s no longer viable for us to continue.

The App and all of its data will be permanently deleted at the end of October 2025.
Please make sure to remove or save anything you wish to keep before that time.

We want to express our deepest gratitude to everyone who’s been part of this journey — facilitators, contributors, and community members who gave their time and heart to make it possible.

And a special thank-you to our App Board — Darren, Joey, Steve, Pete, Ingo, and Jason — who gave their time freely and worked tirelessly behind the scenes. They spent countless hours developing the technology, organising classes, attending meetings, and keeping the main feed alive and engaging. This project was built entirely through generosity, care, and belief, and that deserves to be honoured.

Our Final Gatherings

As we complete this chapter, we’d love to see you in person one last time before our wider Pause begins:

• Tantric Sex: The Sacred Journey Beyond the Ordinary – London, 8–9 November 2025

• Divinity of Bliss – A Gay Tantra Retreat – Glastonbury, 15–21 November 2025

This has been a long road — full of love, frustration, learning, and community. It’s time to bring it to a gentle close, with honesty, gratitude, and respect.

With love,
Jason & Ingo 💜
Tantra4GayMen