“Let’s talk about Sex baby …. Let’s talk about you and me”





“Let’s talk about Sex baby …. Let’s talk about you and me”
Sex can be one of the hardest things to talk about. Especially when it isn’t going well.
When we have needs that are not being met, we can feel bad about parts of ourselves, and we can do an ostrich impression and hope it will all go away.
“It’s better not to talk to anyone about that”.
It might be that you can’t talk to your friends, you can’t talk to your partner or family. So you can feel isolated, stuck, frozen and in good old English “wouldn’t we all be better if we brushed it underneath the carpet and hope it would go away”. There can be a grief and a sadness in that.
Sometimes we are in relationship structures where the sex has died. “How earth do I talk about this?” How do I find balance between honouring my agreement’s and getting what I want. Can those two sit together? And when you don’t know how to address it then there is a double sadness and grief because not only are you coping with the loss of how sex could be, but also stuck in how to address it.
And for some of us it’s not that we need sex per se but actually connection, intimacy, touch. To feel our bodies and to “melt into being hugged”, relax into “being Ok just as you are” and then the fires of sex might rise up into something beautiful rather than something hurried and unsatisfactory.
Tantra is not just about sex and it is not just about intimacy and connecting with others. Those are the starting points to a whole expansive and life changing journey. Many men who come to Tantra are looking for answers. For me these “problems” we face are part of a spiritual journey. We might have been taught that spirituality is about becoming more spiritual, more higher vibration. In my experience it is about how we feel with the dark and difficult parts of our life and how we explore, make changes that set us free.
The Diploma on Tantra programme is a unique programme made up of 4 modules, each very unique and each one designed for you to explore yourself in deep and profound ways. The other 17 men joining you are mirrors to you to help you explore. Each week is held in stunning locations, Glastonbury, UK, Upstate NY USA, San Diego, USA and Puerto Vallarta, Mexico.
This is the best gift you could give yourself. Some real “You” time.
A Tantra Diploma week is a mix go magical, ecstatic, soul lifting experiences that leave you feeling “Wow”.
And it is a week to explore you. To do the work that uncovers structures and strategies that make you stuck. Awareness of places of limitation is 90% of the healing. You are held by 2 deeply skilled Tantra Teachers, either Jason & Ingo or Armand & Pep who will guide you, hold you and create a safe, ethical and space to expand and real your true orgasmic potential.